He’s not dependable enough and you deserve that,” I said, shocked by how raw the words were. At the time, I was utterly confused (did she like him too? She hadn’t met him!), but after she explained that she was just curious, it didn’t take much thinking to instantly say: “Would you recommend this guy to me? To date?” She asked. I’m sure she was just trying to say something to get me to back down and take a cool down from my manic state, but she asked one question that’s stuck with me ever since: She carefully put up with me-in her tender, patient way-until she reached her boiling point (or maybe needed to sign-off so she could do actual work?). We’ve had four amazing dates,” I complained via G-chat to one of my best friends. Everything was so good! It was so great! I don’t understand why he won’t just carry on a normal texting conversation with me. And suddenly that once put-together, independent, and strong-willed woman that you usually are takes a back seat to the bat-sh*t crazy version of you that happens when you think you met someone who could be a something. Now before you go judging me for stressing when a guy doesn't text back right away, consider how many times you’ve been in my state of panic: you have an incredible first date with someone, you full-on make out with them outside of your apartment door, they text you a sweet good-night message… and then you don’t hear from them for days. About a year ago, I was having one of those epic, ridiculous, totally immature meltdowns about some guy that waited 48 hours to respond to a text message.
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